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Monday, 7 May 2012

You Should Date A Girl Who Reads

Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha Penyayang




“You should date a girl who reads.
Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes, who has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.



Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she has found the book she wants. You see that weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a secondhand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow and worn.


She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.


Buy her another cup of coffee.


Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.



It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas, for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry and in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.


She has to give it a shot somehow.


Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.


Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who read understand that all things must come to end, but that you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.


Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.



If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.


You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.


You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.



Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.


Or better yet, date a girl who writes.” 
― Rosemarie Urquico



i'm the girl who reads and writes.
haha.
so, wanna date me? 
:p




xoxo,
Miss M~

24 comments:

eLLa n aLia said...

sweet.. i imagined, the girl who read that stated here was someone that shy, quiet n cute..

Haruno Hana 하나 said...

bestnya la entri kali ni.. super duper ohsemm XD hehe

reenapple said...

yeah.. I do like this entry.. heheh.

#meh date dua.. kekeke.

Ali said...

i love reads to ! buku bertemakan thriller je. cinta2 tak main.

TQ for the idea to looking 'bini' XD

Sudi komen di blog i tak ?? entri lama2 sekali.
Klik sini slow2

Alieza Dayasari said...

hello... lama leeza tak singgah sini... hihihi......

CaDLyNN said...

hamboi...
nak2..bile kite boleh date ni? hehehe

aiEz said...

dengan ini aie meng"offer"kan diri...boleh?hee..:)

kura said...

hahha. promote diri sendiri disitu. bukan main ampu perempuan yg membaca. jom date! haha

obat tradisional asam urat said...

perkara mudah tapi sulit dilakukan...:D

millerJ said...

Nice, and almost true! haha. but then, im not an avid reader. and not even a good writer. so, anybody wanna date me? hahahaha ^^

fierul said...

sy juga seorang yang suka mmbaca , dan menulis ..

malah juga seorang yang suka memiliki buku2 yang terdapat diluar sana :)

kay_are said...

err.. adekah ko ngah promote diri sendiri? =P ayat last sekali tu dah suspicious sangat dah.. em.. aku minat bace tapi tak minat bace novel london.. so aku tak kenal pun ape2 or sape yang ko state T__T

aku HaniAsyira said...

alololo.. i'm not a man la pulak..

mencari pelangi said...

hahah i love to read books too.. nice entry :P

shedameor said...

haha, ingatkan sape. cancel la nak date :P

Marya Yusof said...

As salam Miss M,

I love reading too and I used to be the kind of girl who love to write & read but never has a courage to be an author or a writer! hehehe... I guess my hubby did a right decision to marry me as I'm that kind of girl..hahaha! :p perasan...

Pssst.. there's must be a long queue waiting to date u dear... it's just up to u to choose ;)

Eera Shera said...

wanna date wit u laling..can? huhu..wah suka ayat ni..err sy pn suka baca & menulis jugak..anyone? bahaha :D

Jo-Blogger said...

sorry sy dtg singgah dan follow.

Nong Andy said...

agreed!

zera eira said...

zera ni baca siket pastu tidor dah. ha, acano tu? hehe. tapi mmg bagus pmpuan rajin mbaca nih. :)

HeNRieTTa JoSe said...

yeah...they should...i love to read too....hehehe....

Mr.Clive said...

those who non,honestly speaking,a turn off. :P

Liselle MonCherie said...

I want to date you!
Read and writes are the make up for us <3
Sweet stories become our accessories <3

Badrina Ibtisam said...

Nice entry lah kak!! <3

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